What feels like the end of the line, a roadblock, is often an indication of a broken part of a whole: a habit, a pattern, a dance; a behavior that is so well-practiced, so mastered, that it has a life of its own. In fact, this negative dance owns you and your relationship.
You both know what’s coming. You both know it’s not going to fix anything. The ‘dance’… it’s got to go.